It's often so easy to find ways to blame our circumstances on the actions of others. But God did not intend us to be helpless creatures. He did not create us to be as plants who must sit idly by waiting for someone else to feed us, water us, or even talk with us.  We are free to act or to be be acted upon.  2 Nephi 2:14 reads: ..."For there is a God,and he hath created all things, both the heavens and the earth, and all things in them are, both things to act and things to be acted upon." 

Let us choose to act.